tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9130292629574477585.post8449848546801124028..comments2023-06-12T11:51:53.932-04:00Comments on life is a science experiment: This Game is Boring Now.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07081558215651271966noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9130292629574477585.post-76966853736195101202011-10-21T23:29:20.414-04:002011-10-21T23:29:20.414-04:00erik, i don't know what to say other than, i r...erik, i don't know what to say other than, i really appreciate your input as another side. it means a lot that you're here on this path with us ...Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07081558215651271966noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9130292629574477585.post-47164169007676315562011-10-21T22:15:49.630-04:002011-10-21T22:15:49.630-04:00Steph, do not attempt to make claims which are not...Steph, do not attempt to make claims which are not fact. You stated in the article comments section, (in regards to Easton's use of the word Tranny) "That word isn't yours. It hasn't historically been used against trans men, and it's not really yours to claim, let alone "proudly"." I am a trans man, and have been attacked for being a trans man, and been called a tranny, in hatred, by my attackers and I am not alone in that. I know quite a few trans men who have had that experience. Now in this comments section you are attempting to invalidate the experiences of ALL trans men who have been called tranny in hatred by saying the use of the word by folks other than trans women is TRANSPHOBIC. Seriously? How dare you. Do not tell me or any other trans man that “That word isn’t yours” I earned the right to reclaim it as my own if I so choose with every bone they broke in my face that night. So have many other trans men. Until you know that the trans guy you are speaking to was not one of that group, have some respect that trans men have struggled just as hard on this journey as our trans sisters. <br /><br />ErikErich Blaydehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07673158902209725289noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9130292629574477585.post-52588314169243320152011-10-21T21:03:47.980-04:002011-10-21T21:03:47.980-04:00ROFLMFAO!!!!!!
i am a pussy ;)
a loud one.ROFLMFAO!!!!!!<br /><br />i am a pussy ;)<br /><br />a loud one.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07081558215651271966noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9130292629574477585.post-10698085342313156502011-10-21T20:46:24.805-04:002011-10-21T20:46:24.805-04:00...as in a lion who was just waiting for her time ......as in a lion who was just waiting for her time to show her claws and ROAR !!dirtycowgirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04193492692357362402noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9130292629574477585.post-48958668758012242612011-10-21T20:45:31.795-04:002011-10-21T20:45:31.795-04:00...so given my acrophobia does that mean I am in f......so given my acrophobia does that mean I am in fact prejudiced towards heights ?<br /><br />whatever next ? tall buildings fighting for their rights ?<br /><br />re cats and dogs living together, you might think they do - but the cats are just laying low, playing it cool and biding their time<br /><br />you're a pussy Andrea loldirtycowgirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04193492692357362402noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9130292629574477585.post-16147110381421450382011-10-21T10:44:19.012-04:002011-10-21T10:44:19.012-04:00Hey Steph. I saw your comment online a few days a...Hey Steph. I saw your comment online a few days ago and didn't respond b/c i didn't think there was any point. I will still call myself Tranny. Of course I can you know why? Because I am one and that is how i identify. To say it's only for trans women is redic. I am sorry for the way people used to use it against trans women.<br /><br />I'm not interested in arguing with any political Tranny's /Queers. You have your ideas and I have mine.Eastonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16562507386710928662noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9130292629574477585.post-2909212426848046002011-10-21T10:06:46.242-04:002011-10-21T10:06:46.242-04:00thank you for the resource 'now' steph ;) ...thank you for the resource 'now' steph ;) like you said this is not a recent ordeal. i could've used this support when i first started asking for it. unfortunately i found dead end after dead end of finding the support i needed. <br /><br />so i made my own. i worked through it on my own. <br /><br />i completely agree with you that my labels are **ahem** un-PC, but you know what? you labeling me transphobic, which albeit a PC term, is a whole lot less humorous than imagining you with pom-poms.<br /><br />i'm hot for butches, and i married the perfect butch. i then had to find my own grieving process (albeit publicly) to make it through until i found people who had feelings like myself.<br /><br />they came out of the woodwork.<br /><br />now i am too. it's just that my voice is a little louder.<br /><br /><br /><br />we're all entitled to our feelings. thanks for sharing yours as well.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07081558215651271966noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9130292629574477585.post-34904744871620164542011-10-21T03:09:10.883-04:002011-10-21T03:09:10.883-04:00Jenn: I think you're being deliberately inflam...Jenn: I think you're being deliberately inflammatory.<br />"Transphobia" has as much to do with irrational phobias as do "homophobia" and "Islamophobia" - hint: they're rooted in prejudice, not traumatic associations or whatever.<br />(Also, I'm not entirely sure that eleven months, nearly a year really still counts as "just recently", but that's neither here nor there.)<br /><br />Want to know what <em>is</em> transphobic? Using the phrase "Rah-Rah Tranny crowd". Hell, using the word "tranny" at <em>all</em> if you're not a trans woman (Easton, I left you a comment on this note over at the Xtra! post - have you read it?) is pretty transphobic (w/r/t issues of reclamation - for the time being, if you're not a trans woman, using that word is more hindrance than help).<br /><br />Deliberately framing an article to (awkwardly) avoid using any pronouns for your partner in transition? Both transphobic and not recommended by any decent manual of style I can think of. <br /><br />Andréa, I'm not trying to attack you as a person. I'm sure you're lovely. But you have to acknowledge that empirically, some of the things you've done have been empirically transphobic, and your e-mail sender was justified in saying so.<br /><br />PS: Have you checked out VCH's Transgender Health Program? They have a whole bunch of <a href="http://transhealth.vch.ca/resources/transgroups.html" rel="nofollow">resources</a> with regards to groups that meet - Vancouver has a multitude of support groups, of which at least one or two have to for or inclusive of trans SOFFAs.Stephnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9130292629574477585.post-17812030482321245782011-10-20T22:23:52.225-04:002011-10-20T22:23:52.225-04:00rafa, i get to be demonic in my music video this w...rafa, i get to be demonic in my music video this weekend ... i will be channeling my inner punk-rap xoAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07081558215651271966noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9130292629574477585.post-77381365226952982852011-10-20T20:11:26.227-04:002011-10-20T20:11:26.227-04:00Maybe it's time to write some angry punk songs...Maybe it's time to write some angry punk songs? Or a gangsta-rap!Rafahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17941190987353600642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9130292629574477585.post-32398253264830419962011-10-20T17:39:22.287-04:002011-10-20T17:39:22.287-04:00:) thanx for your love jenn :)
bring anaya ANYTIM...:) thanx for your love jenn :)<br /><br />bring anaya ANYTIME!<br /><br />this person does not know the whole story and it's impossible to get that without knowing. i just wish people WOULD get the whole story BEFORE they diss me ... but that's the nature of the beast.<br /><br />and i have vented and am now letting it go ...Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07081558215651271966noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9130292629574477585.post-54634788429186994722011-10-20T15:46:39.176-04:002011-10-20T15:46:39.176-04:00Id love to see your kitties with Anaya :D I want ...Id love to see your kitties with Anaya :D I want to see how well I have done with her inside a home with cats muwahahahahaha. (outside she can walk by with just a bit of curiosity no prey drive) <br /><br />On the phobic end... Id like to remind people of the definition of the word. <br /><br />An extreme or irrational fear of or aversion to something: "he had a phobia about being under water"; "a phobia of germs"; "a snake phobia". <br /><br />Easton has known for a while how he has felt, you found out just recently. Change is big and scary and there is NOTHING wrong with that at all. NOTHING PHOBIC about it. If the person has an issue with what you write, they should address it to YOU maybe? Or.... OR.... not reading your blog or listening to what you need to say. Just sayin. I love you and you are the most tolerant happy and positive person I know... even when you were at one of your lowest points you ALWAYS found something positive to say. Clearly this person doesn't know you too well, and that is sad. <br /><br />I love you A AAAAAAAAAAAAAAND you're a great friend!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9130292629574477585.post-12631280330894627912011-10-20T15:12:06.464-04:002011-10-20T15:12:06.464-04:00jamie sweetheart where's your icon?!?! please...jamie sweetheart where's your icon?!?! please don't tell me you have bad news about your blog?!?! i guess i'll be backing up mine again today ...Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07081558215651271966noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9130292629574477585.post-34039343835437003632011-10-20T15:04:31.263-04:002011-10-20T15:04:31.263-04:00Hey A, dogs are so funny when they think they can ...Hey A, dogs are so funny when they think they can rule and the cat bitch-slaps them into their place. Sorry about the douche bag. Glad you are not thinking about it at all;) I'm sure you will put it from your mind. But letting yourself vent is healthy.<br />Jamie (fucking google)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com