All my life I've known that one on one friendships have been the best way to go for me.
Since a young age, I've witnessed people traveling in herds.
What I've noticed, is it seems that when people travel in herds, they lose their independent thinking.
Someone will decide that nobody is allowed to be friends with a certain person and the rest will agree and follow.
Sounds a bit like high school, or even kindergarten right?
It's not. It's right here in the 'adult' gay 'community'.
I'm a one on one person by heart, mostly because I can only trust one person at a time.
As soon as people start traveling in herds and listening to The Grand Poohbah whomever he, she, it or they may be, then they can't seem to make an informed decision by themselves.
It's no wonder I retreat and only share one on one time with people who have earned my trust.
I just found out the Hen Peckers have done the same thing to a third kind-hearted, sweet-souled person I know.
I have also learned about in fighting and accusations from one person to the next.
Not to mention all the people who decide that anyone who isn't versed well in the transgender community are to be deemed 'transphobic' while they try to learn about our brave new world.
What the fuck is going on here?!?!
Each and every loving person in my life has been affected by this ridiculousness.
Why the hell can't we be kind to one another? Why the fuck can't we be mature and talk out our differences? Why the fuck can't we grow up?
I'll stick to my one on one hangouts thank you very much.
Every person I love, who treats me with love, is deserving of my friendship.
I don't give a flying fuck who said what to whom.
I don't give a flying fuck about lies and accusations meant to harm another individual's reputation in the name of jealousy.
I don't give a mother fucking shit about the 'mean girls' anymore.
... trust me ... 'mean girls' is only a name ... there's plenty of 'mean girls' in the form of male as well ...
They can rot in their stew of hatred that seems to be bubbling and running over the edges. Yeah, we have to smell the abhorrent burning flesh as it hits the red hot burners, searing in it's fate.
How can people be so heartless? How can the 'community' hold any one of these individuals up on a pedestal?
We need to open our eyes.
There's so much going on out there with the young ones being bullied, but what about adults?
I'd love to say it gets better to these young ones, but honestly, it can't. I'm glad I never made my 'it gets better' video for my friend, because it would have be a lie.
Life only gets better if we're lucky enough to not have fallen prey to people who still bully as an adult.
So, no, I'm sorry. It doesn't really get better. We just make better choices as to who to spend our time with.
Fucking well knock it off everyone!
We all need to fucking heal from the bullshit that is being passed around our people.
How the fuck can we call this a 'community' when there's so much hatred?
At this point, as far as I'm concerned, there is no 'community'.
There are only individuals who are good-hearted that we can pick and choose to support us, and then there are the bullies in their gangs.
I'm so goddam fucking sick of it.
Grow the fuck up.
when i am surrounded by love, i can do anything
