Saturday, November 24, 2012

THIS is fucking ridiculous

I'm hiding in the bedroom, doing my best to write to you today.  This is one of the days I wish I was already video blogging.  You really would have enjoyed Papi's baboon-like behaviour.

Seriously.  Arms were flailing.

I have to remember, we both have a lot of emotion around losing The Golden, but for fucks sakes!  He pissed me off enough to have me lose my sleep last night, and then I get up to more of his antics this morning when he came home.

He's on a rant about what I'm bringing to Casa Paraíso.  He says it's ridiculous.  Let me tell you what ridiculous is.  I couldn't even make my coffee without him trying to tell me how ridiculous my reverse osmosis water system is.

I need to drink water.  I can't drink their water.  Water heals me.  I'm bringing a system so I can drink the water.

So there I was trying to put my coffee into my urn and he was actually body blocking me, as if we were in a basketball game, "I won't let it go until you admit how ridiculous it is to bring this system," while I was grinding beans for my 2nd round of coffee, because he distracted me so bad on the first round, I fucked up the process.

Round 2: Pivot, water.  Pivot, beans.  Pivot, cinnamon.

Yes, he had me cornered in the very small of Our Closet, with his peacock tail fluffed, puffed out chest body, like a fucking dude in a bar showing who's boss.

To appease his nonsense, I tried to test the 'I'll let it go, if you admit how ridiculous this is' theory, so I told him, "OK.  I can admit that it's a bit large."  But do you think that was enough for him to now 'let it go'?

Oh, no.  He moved on to acting like a girl in that bar fight, snapping his fingers with, that 'bitch, I told you' attitude, all the whilst, spilling my coffee as he pranced about with every single thing I want to bring.

What's ridiculous?  Dragging it all out into the living room so that I could put it on my blog, in hopes that everyone would tell me I'm being ridiculous in wanting to bring things I can't buy there along with me.

I honestly can't even convey the act that's going on right now.

I can't even write without the feeling that he IS the Papirazzi.  The camera bulb is flashing, Papi's stomping around like an anger gnome, and the cats are nowhere to be found.  He's one step short of running to the mountain tops to scream out, "This is ridiculous!!!!!" in hopes that his bellowing echo could be heard all the way to the Dominican Republic.

Oh, here's the newest one he's brought out.  He's telling me they're going to think I'm bringing a bomb, which has quickly gone into him telling me it's just going to get wrecked.

THIS?  Is letting it go?

No, like I told him at the very beginning of his rant, "Even if I DO say it's ridiculous, you'll probably go on about it for the rest  of our 56 days."

Don't worry, I have ammo.  I'll just bring up the hissy fit about me wanting me to stop the medicinal cannabis because we're going somewhere they won't accept me using it, but then he goes on taking HIS medicinal cannabis for another fucking 3 weeks!!!

Yup, I'll be hearing about this until my dying day.  There I will be lying in my bed, all wrinkled and old, trying to gasp out my last breaths, with Papi telling me, "I won't let you die until you tell me how ridiculous it was."

Ridiculous is him purposely trying to get me to get pissed off.

He worked his magic of trying to piss me off all night last night and all morning today.  He just can't accept that when he goes into an anger rant, I shut down and don't say much, because I need to keep myself from showing my anger.

However, onward Papi went to test the theory.  Right down to, every time I poured myself a glass of water, he'd drink it.

Well, now I've locked myself in the bedroom to escape his shenanigans and enjoy my cup of coffee without it being spilled all over the floor every time he stomped by, ranting about how ridiculous this all is. 

This was seriously nothing you could ever capture in a few words.  Oh, how I wish I had a video blog up and running.  You'd understand my pain.

Here's his ridiculous photo:

 

You see that pink spot on the very right of this photo?

That was me trying to enjoy my mother fucking coffee.  You don't mess with my mother fucking coffee.

 i drink plenty of water to keep myself healthy

23 comments:

  1. It does look like a bomb and we have A WATER FILTER SYSTEM IN OUR VILLA!!!!! We have to Buy 2 More Suitcases just to bring this stupid thing and I'm sure it will get ruined on the way there since they like to throw our luggage from the top of the airport!!!!!

    I do admit I was an asshole and purposely teasing you but common Your $3000 water system is REDIC!!!! People who move to the Caribbean bring clothes and that's it!!! Watch House Hunters International and you will see!!!!!

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    1. don't believe everything you see on tv papi ...

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  2. $3000!!! Damn straight it would be coming with me. But I am one of those people who has a light suitcase on holliday, I always think you can buy stuff when you get there, having said that you're not just going on holiday you're moving there, Soooo take it all it's bloody expensive in the DR :D xxx

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  3. Damn - I want some coffee.... I'm not leaving anthing worth $3,000... ;)

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  4. I would be bringing that water filtration system if I had paid $3000 for it. Papi needs to relax a little and be a little more understanding about your need to keep yourself healthy. I'm sure you don't rag on Papi about his unhealthy eating/drinking habits. I'm expecting Pspi to rag on me for taking your side, but at least I can remain anonymous ;-)

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    1. anonymity is a good thing, no? it's not only a filtration ... but yup. it's coming.

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  5. Settle down folks. Is the water there properly chlorinated? If so, bring it. If not, it won't save you from e coli, dysentery, or whatever other bacterial flavour the local system offers, and you need to switch to "Bottled in the USA/Canada."

    That said, it's time for Papi to read "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus." Like most of us, he just doesn't understand you people.

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    1. it's actually an ionizer. all i know, is the locals can drink it, so it's not got the horrid diseases in it. we just can't drink it.

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  6. @legacy for one we already have a water filter in our Villa #2 the whole purpose of this second purification thingy is that it kills EVERYTHING so we can drink it. This new addition thing only cost $300 the main purification she is also bringing that she has had for 2 years is the $3000 thing.
    #3 A WILL never drink Bottled water ever! She is the biggest water snob i have ever met. To be fair her expensive machine has healed her body.

    Also to Anon. She rags on my pop eating habits almost daily. Lucky for my health though in the DR i don't have a quiznos or taco bell to go to close by so she will be cooking all my healthy meals for me. They have a burger kind close by but its $12 for a meal and it takes like crap and since we will be on a budget and I am super cheap now I WILL NOT spend that kinda money on fast food!!
    I'm over it now. She is bringing it and we are buying 2 more suitcases to bring it.

    But does no one agree it looks like a bomb??!!!

    Oh also Legacy NO MORE CATS ;-)

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  7. Reverse osmosis is effective at removing a lot of stuff, but will not necessarily remove all bacteria from unchlorinated water. For that, you need a UV system. Assuming that's the other thingy, the RO will take out stuff that the UV won't, and give you cleaner-tasting water.

    As a general rule with water, the cleaner the better. If you can get the replacement filters down there, it's worth bringing, but you might want to pack it in a proper shipping box instead of buying suitcases.

    I guess it could look like a bomb to U.S. airport security, depending on who's bringing it, but I used to sell water treatment systems, so I kinda know one when I see one.

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    1. i hope the person who sees it isn't dumb enough to think it's a bomb. we're going through T.O. so they're a little more on the ball than the yanks that check things out.

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  8. they are staying in the boxes they came in but we are putting them in luggage cause shipping is way too expensive. We are going through Toronto this time. Miami and fucking homeland destroyed our new luggage on our last trip. I've never been inspected by homeland. I was not happy!!!!
    The water thing will be fine since we have 3 diff filters.....
    I've calmed down about it. If it's important to her it's important to me. Just means we need 3 more huge suitcases :-)

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  9. reading this was like watching your parents fight. Scary fight.

    Till you view it like a sitcom - cue the canned laugh track...
    - Lucy you gots sum splainin ta do!
    - Ees just sooo rediculous!

    You guys were being jackasses. Understandable with all you're dealing with. A's solution to retire to
    the bedroom was priceless.

    Do you both have Nexus cards? It helps.

    A - what about a letter from your Doctor?explaining a medical need for that filtration system.

    Also there is a special lightweight, thin foam you can line your suitcases with to prevent damage. (If you can't use styrofoam.)

    It's used to pack high end speakers as they're sensitive to vibration. Future Shop etc throws it out.

    A you can ask another musician, audiophile or music studio etc speciality shipping company

    Maybe someone has styrofoam from their big screen TV? (flatter & thinner & can be cut to fit)

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    1. thanx for all the suggestions. i'll read them better when my brain can function to do so.

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  10. I think it looks more like a weired kind of sex toy than a bomb either way if its seen on exray you're getting pulled :D
    might be a good Idea to get that Dr's note! Xxx

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  11. @ Huck ya we have nexus cards they never have bothered me. They treat me like a king and guide me on through. It's funny to watch them with A b/c they are a little more suspicious of her.
    I'm not sure if when the checked luggage goes through the conveyor belt that they know it is ours? Like in the depth of whatever is in the airports basement area thingy? To be fair we were bringing a lot of stuff and it was Miami to The DR so I'm sure there are lots of drug type stuff going on and in the checked luggage i had 2 needles for my meds! I'm bringing a box load of needles this time!
    We are going Via Toronto this time so I'm sure it won't be as bad.
    I had a dr's note when i had surgery in Florida and they wouldn't even look at it. In the states they don't care about that shit and really i can't blame them.
    We are gonna get lots of packing material especially for her expensive Mac desktop that she uses for her music.
    One of my ex's was a luggage person at YVR and the stories i heard.....
    All i really care about is that the 3 cats are treated well and alive when we get there!!
    We will get pulled over in the DR b/c of the animals and all our stuff but as long as they see a return plane ticket to Canada they should be cool with us.
    We are sending our forms to the Embassy in Canada to get the 60 day temp residency cards before we go so that should help :-)

    Hmm a sex toy not a bomb ehh? Interesting. The Dr people are gonna sure like all the other sex toy stuff we are bringing i'm sure. They are gonna think we are pervs :->

    I wish i knew who the anon person siding with A was on this one. Common tell me who you are :-) Please?

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    1. and again ... you say you couldn't write your own blog? bitch, please!

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  12. You two sound like an old married couple...Ohhh wait you are lol! I won't take sides, but I will say this, never fuck with a girl and her coffee!!
    C

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    1. so glad we have a lock on the door. i got to finish it in peace.

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